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Major Arcana · VI

The Lovers

A man and a woman stand beneath a great winged figure in the sunlight: Waite's card of human love, attraction and innocence.

The Lovers — tarot card from the 1909 deck

Card art by Pamela Colman Smith (1909), public domain

Upright

Yes / No: Yes

Waite's divinatory meanings for the Lovers are simple: attraction, love, beauty and trials that have been overcome. Think about what draws you toward someone or something, what you find beautiful, and which difficulties you have already come through, alone or with others.

  • love
  • beauty
  • attraction
  • trials overcome

Reversed

Yes / No: No

Reversed, Waite speaks of failure and ill-judged plans; another account he cites mentions a thwarted marriage and setbacks of every kind. Does a plan or a connection rest on wishful thinking? An honest look may show you what is really there.

  • failure
  • foolish schemes
  • frustrated marriage
  • opposing circumstances

Love & relationships

Upright, the Lovers card speaks of mutual attraction, openness and genuine affection: two people meeting each other as they are. It may also reflect challenges already faced and moved through. Notice what draws you to the other person, what feels honest between you, and which shared values give the connection its beauty.

Reversed, the Lovers card can show hopes that do not quite match reality, or outside circumstances pulling a connection in different directions. Frustration may be building, along with a sense that something keeps falling short. Gently and honestly, ask whether the bond rests on what is actually there or on what you wish were there.

The image

The sun blazes overhead, and beneath it a great winged figure spreads its arms, sending its influence down. In the foreground a man and a woman stand unclothed and open before each other, like Adam and Eve in the first paradise. Behind the man grows the Tree of Life, drawn here with flame-like leaves, though Waite's text gives it twelve fruits. Behind the woman stands the Tree of Knowledge, with a serpent coiled around it.

Symbolism

Waite is plain about it: the card is about human love, shown as one stage on the path toward truth and life. The figures suggest youth, innocence and a love not yet clouded by coarse desire. He sees the woman not as a temptress but as an expression of a hidden law of Providence, and he notes that this design replaces older ones showing a marriage, or a man torn between virtue and vice.

In a reading

Upright, the card turns to attraction, affection and what you have already overcome. Reversed, it suggests that some plans may not hold up, so look honestly at the gap between what you hope for and what is actually in front of you.

The yes / no answer is our editorial reading of the card’s overall tone, not a prediction.

For self-reflection and personal insight. Not a prediction and not a substitute for professional medical, legal, financial or mental-health advice.